To understand and feel sorry He laid down his life for us. We should

also lay down our lives for our brothers.
John 3:16 hcsb
Life can be hard but what we usually mean is that our life can be
hard; we're the first to feel it when we're the ones who feel
deprived, and when life is difficult for us we notice. But too often
the only way we notice that life is hard for our friends is when they
start complaining about it, then instead of genuinely caring or
rushing in to help we might think they just have a bad attitude. The
pain and pressure they're under don't register with us the way it does
when it's our pain and pressure… when we want to complain we expects
everyone for us
Genevieve E.M's love into action, it has seen weight piling up and it
stepped into helping, at UHURU centre Dar es laam Tanzania, blessed
let she be, Genevieve Emmanuel Mpangala miss Tanzania 2010-2011

This doesn't happen when love is at work, before worries and trouble
begun to bury our friends love has already gone into action mode